Self-esteem

People are very proud of themselves as they value their personalities, reputations, etc, which leads them to self-esteem. They believe more on themselves despite their weaknesses and they rarely recognise them.

Is self-esteem a quality or a defect? This is real dilemma due to the fact that for some people, other people’s self-esteem should be seen as a defect while they cannot judge themselves and for other people, self-esteem is the way of standing strong and not letting people to judge you negatively.

Most human beings are the same as no one easily accepts his/her weaknesses and threats. Being negatively judged by others is seems like a failure for human beings even though their conscience know that it’s true. That’s the reason why they say it easy to judge others than to be judged; it’s because of self-esteem as you will not want people saying bad things about you or about your family, etc.

From my point of view, self-esteem could be better for those who really feel that they want it and not need it as from there, they will do things right as to position themselves within the society and that will contribute to the development of mentalities, not only fir such people but for the all society as the true development starts with the change and/or development in people’s mentalities.